As we near the end of another year, it is an appropriate time to reflect upon the moments we all hold near and dear in our hearts and minds. We store our loving memories in a place that has no space or time and yet it always seems to remain with us.
Time flows like a gentle running stream without end pasting a stone on the shore. In that realization, the priceless moments we let go unnoticed come back to us. As human beings, we must learn to cherish each day, love every moment, and enjoy this ride called life. Too much of our lives is spent arguing over who’s wrong or right instead of focusing on solutions that makes it possible to create great achievement.
I was taught to never miss out on the moments that truly define what life is about. The amazing sunsets that take your breath away, leaving us speechless and yet descriptive in a way that words could never say. That moment you first heard someone say, “I love you” and how it took your breath away, or the first time you were touched in a very affectionate way. Can you remember that moment you first fell in love? That ultimate form of vulnerability surrendered between one another, like a bond between a child and its mother, nothing more meaningful, nothing stronger.
It’s those moments when a rainbow appears, how we forget about the rain and our eyes light up like children on Christmas day. It’s those moments that create memories to help us through our darkest times, thoughts not of what we have, but with whom we share our lives. Those special moments bringing tears of joy to our eyes by inspiring thoughts of hope that make us realize everything is going to be all right.
I remember the moment I got my first bike and how my father spent time teaching me how to ride it. Looking back, I recognize those moments were more than just teaching me how to ride a bike; he was showing me how to raise a child. The lesson I was learning at a young age showed me that the bike wasn’t as important as the time I spent with my father learning how to ride it. Although that little blue bike with the banana seat and streamers is long gone, it is the moment that has ceaselessly remained for a lifetime.
Life is short and, before you know it, another decade will have passed us by in the blink of an eye. Don’t wait until it’s too late to create a season of moments with those who matter most. As we get older, we soon realize those wrinkles on our faces aren’t from age, but from a lifetime of laughter and smiles shared between one another – from the moments that brought light to our world, a little bit at a time.
Someday, we’ll turn to our final chapter and script our very last page. And, at that moment, we will have said all we have to say. All that will be left to cherish are those memories of those moments spent with those who meant so much to us.
Wishing you and yours a pleasant and safe holiday season, one filled with truly special and lasting moments.
For more than a decade, Mount Vernon residents have been held hostage to a political battle that has impacted our children and our quality of life. Like all of you, I’ve watched this political theater filled with successive politicians tearing down one another to get a leg up on the “Memorial Field” express. Finishing this field has become the Holy Grail of mayoral politics in Mount Vernon. Through the years, the battle between Mount Vernon’s mayors and other elected officials to be the person who “completes” Memorial Field has been long, embarrassing, and costly. Moreover, the political squabbling and games being played with the project has created a blemish on the city that has deprived its residents and, especially, its children of the use of its own resources.
I wanted to give you some great news about the renovation of Memorial Field and the City Council’s lawsuit against Mayor Thomas. The project is now moving forward and dirt is going to start flying! A lot of time and effort has gone into working with the Court to keep this project on track, and it’s about to pay off.
I’ve received a number of questions in the past few days and wanted to provide you with an update on what has happened with regard to the Water Department. If you’re a regular reader of this column you’ll know the story, but if not, I will summarize it briefly here. Mount Vernon’s residents were shocked to see dramatic increases in their recent water bills, some having doubled or tripled for the same water usage. As a City Councilman I was just as shocked as many of you, knowing that the City Council is responsible for setting Mount Vernon’s water rates, and we haven’t changed those rates in three years. So, how did this happen?
Isaac Newton, the father of physics, taught us an important lesson about life when he said that “If I have seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” We all have the power to help our young men see further, and you don’t have to be a giant to do it. We live in a world of endless possibilities, more connected and less remote than ever before. So, why are so many of our children feeling trapped, isolated, and alone? Why are our children’s visions not extending beyond a three-block radius around their homes? What does it say about us when many of our children define success as just simply surviving? It’s saying that we’ve let them down. Our young men are in a crisis without the assistance, guidance, and encouragement that many of us took for granted when we were their age. We often get upset when children make bad decisions that affects their lives forever, however, we fail to realize that we are not involved when they are making those choices. We have the power to change that sad reality.
From the outside looking in, Mount Vernon can look like a political circus, one for which no one is willing to purchase a ticket, except the local media. The political bickering surrounding Mount Vernon these days seems to cast a dark shadow over our city, concealing who we truly are. We are a city of mostly Democrats with over 95 different nationalities living together as one big family; and like all families, we to have our fair share of disagreements. However, no disagreement should ever be allowed to destroy a family because what we disagree on is never as important as what binds us together.
We teach our children to be honest, to say what you mean, and to mean what you say. We tell ourselves that we are truthful and that our word is our bond. We say that a person’s handshake is more powerful than any words written on a piece of paper. Furthermore, that the commitments we share between one another should bear the strength of steel and shall not bend or break. So why do we accept our politicians’ untruthful behavior, yet we punish our children for far less? Why is that behavior rewarded and even defended in a way that normalizes it? When did our wrongs become right and this overwhelming urge to kneel to deception be deemed acceptable? I remember my father mentioning to me as a child “fear causes people to lie because they are afraid of an unfavorable outcome, so they create a false perception to avoid true reality.” It’s been over 40 years since we had that conversation. It was the first time I was taught about the importance of integrity and keeping my word. So why are so many elected official granted a free pass on integrity or keeping their word? The question is simple. When we remain silent or turn a blind eye to untruthful or lawless behavior, we actually grant our politicians permission to continue with business as usual. We accept their excuses so why should they keep their word.
The activities leading up to the recent confirmation of Judge Brett Kavanagh to the U.S. Supreme Court has brought to the forefront the importance of credibility, temperament, judgment, decency, and impartiality in making appointments to official positions. At the heart of the confirmation issue was whether Kavanaugh’s past activities would impact his ability to make fair and impartial decisions in the future. These same issues are playing out in the recent headlines related to Mayor Thomas’ brazen appointment of his former criminal attorney, Charles Knapp, as Mount Vernon’s new Inspector General. For argument’s sake, let’s assume that Mr. Knapp is a smart, capable, and an experienced attorney. And, by accepting this appointment without pay, he sees it as a generous gesture to offer his public service to the City of Mount Vernon. However, there are many reasons why Charles Knapp’s appointment is a bad idea.
On June 1, 2018, Mayor Richard Thomas, when speaking about his plan to renovate Memorial Field by any means necessary, said: “The process involves removing both the dirty dirt and tenants that refuse to pay back-rent amounting to more than five hundred thousand dollars. We will give Mount Vernon back a bigger, better revenue-generating Memorial Field no matter what is in the way.” Mayor Thomas’ plan for Memorial Field now stands to cost the City of Mount Vernon dearly. In his quest to return Memorial Field to its residents, the Mayor has acted without regard to process, law, or common sense when he instructed the illegal entry to the tennis center and the destruction of personal property. His unlawful operation may in fact cost Mount Vernon taxpayers far more than the total revenue to be ever generated from Memorial Field.
Almost immediately following any government mishap, there is a well-orchestrated cover-up complete with statements meant to misdirect and confuse the public with rehearsed talking points so all the players can present the same alternative facts. As part of that, people who refuse to tow the line on the official “story” are demoted, suspended, escorted out by police or fired to intimidate them into not talking. This type of activity isn’t just reserved for the national government, but lately it’s also been seen at the local level. Shortly after I reported about the City of Mount Vernon Water Department suspiciously increasing Mount Vernon’s water rates, the cover-up campaign began with newsletters, television interviews, and social media blogs. I would like to address the most common “explanations” offered by the Water Department by providing valid information and solid logic.